What Couples Seeking Fertility Treatments Should Know

24 December 2015 by Jonathan Phillips

When someone is unable to produce a child on their own there are numerous alternatives to choose. For many, the option to undergo fertility treatments rather than adopt is the solution that appeals to them the most. There are several different paths fertility clinics take depending on the needs and preferences of the prospective parents. It can be a long process for some, but it is often even more complex when a third party is involved as a sperm donor, egg donor or surrogate parent. It is important for people to realize the potential for complications.

Most donors want to remain anonymous.

Both sperm and egg donors are often involved because they want to earn a little extra money. That may not be the romanticized and altruistic reason many couples like to hear, but it is the reality. Because of this many couples will have only basic information about the person whose sperm or eggs are being used, although it is important to know that all donors will have been health screened.

Few donors change their minds, but it can happen.

Sperm donations are done in advance, so the odds of someone reconsidering after their sperm is selected is almost non-existent. With egg donors and surrogates, the risk rises. Eggs are harvested after the individual has been selected. There have been instances where women have changed their minds at the last moment and decided not to donate. The problem for couples facing this is that they have to begin the process again, something that can put their schedules back months. The most serious concern is when surrogates change their minds. It is rare, but there have been instances where surrogates feel a bond with the child they are carrying and refuse to relinquish the child.  

Every couple should have a fertility lawyer.

The rights of the parents are not necessarily guaranteed, even when working with a reputable clinic. There are just too many variables and emotions involved in these types of medical procedures. With their own fertility lawyer, like those at Carmen L. Janssen Attorney at Law and other firms, the couple will have an authoritative voice on their side who can guide them through the process and help them to make the right decisions.

Most couples will admit that once the fertility treatment process is over, and they have their baby in their arms, all the time and effort was worth it. The majority of people are able to choose donors or surrogates and have a healthy baby without any complications. Understanding that it will take time and patience, and taking the few extras steps to obtain legal advice, will help to make it easier.  

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